*************************************************************************************
ni seme sean nyer pasal lah..boring sehh and he knows it too. semalam, habis i membebel kat dia. sampai the girls and i stressed sehh..all because he said yes to a friend's brother ( dia ni pun kira our friend jugaklah) that he could stay with us for a few days..well, he didn't say yes actually..he told the guy to call back during the weekend to see what we're doing..and well..we were busy doing our own things this weekend anyway. so semalam kan..this guy called us on the cell phone and the phone berkali2 sehh..5 times each..and sean told me not to answer the phone. the guy apparently wanted to come out last night itself.
susahlah macam gini..i mean..if i were sean, i would have said ..it may not be a good idea for now..my wife is not in a good mood..hehe. so now..he called and left a msg that he wants to come out tonight or tomorrow and stay for a few days..alamakkkk! i don't like it because sean is working deiii! i don't want him to stay with me in the house esp, with sarina in sch and on wednesday, both kids will be in school...kalau my brothers satu hal jugaklah..so how? i have not told sean yet..sebab when i got this latest msg, sean dah balik gi keje after lunch. boring ...boring... also sean said that he is afraid that this guy may want to stay for more than just a couple of days..alamakkkkkk! don't get me wrong..kalau i masih kat rumah lama..i tak kisah sebab he can stay in the other house..i bilang kat sean..suruh jer dia pergi kat hiawatha..hehe.
also i bilang kat sean..why not tell the guy to go camping at the lake...hehe. he said that he needed to be away from his mother ( this one long story lah..and he cannot go back to his sister's..also long story..but with good reason why the sister doesn't want him around). and then sean said he does not want to get in the middle of it all..so he tak answer the phone..so frustrating. i think, if he's married ker..not so bad..yerlah...ada kaum hawa lain kan..ni he's by himself..i rasa tak sedap lah even though i know him already, sebab whenever he's around, sean was always around.
tapi takper..i doa2 mintak2 he has a change of heart lah..tak jadi datang. see lah ..my mood spoil seh for the whole day.
8 comments:
Hmm...your situation mcm sama with mine when Mike or Joe wanted to stay few days. So you know lah..boring sey!!!! a-ahh, kalau our own family members takper jugak. Actually, I never like John's family members or friends staying over. Tapi kalau my own friends/family tak per..tak adil kan? pasal lah. (I paling tak suka kalau yang pengotor laa..masuk rumah tak bukak kasut, masuk toilet tak flush..and yang tak mandi pagi..hahahah)
true..i mean..it's not that i tak kasi he come or what..but i am not happy about sean being not at home while he's there. itu jer..and then the phone calls..i say..i actually turned off the ringer tau. i know, i ni tak baik..but i want sean to deal with it lah.
Sounds very familiar, Rosma!!! Kan dulu2 I like to get on social networks, make lotsa friends online... I didn't know part of the package was to let them stay at my house *slaps forehead* Kalau yang pompuan is ok lah... ni, yang kucing kurab nyer guys. It was very hard to say no, esp after I had opened my big mouth to come over :( The last guy who stayed here, kelakar betul. I wanted to go to KL with my fam. Yet, he wanted to come over at the same time. He didn't confirm with me his arrival, so I pun tak kuasa lah nak tanya2. Dia telephone lah dari airport. I tak angkat. Then he stayed at dunno which hotel. The next day he called. I terangkat the call... so apa lagi, terpaksa invite him over. And I had to take him with us to KL too. *sigh* Yang buat orang geram tu, he kept flashing his gold credit card lah, duit american lah, this lah, that lah, tapi satu benda pun dia tak belanja us. Instead, we had to feed him and lodge him all the way!! One time at Genting Highlands, we bought him a nasi packet sebab all the restaurants dah tutup - was over the CNY holiday. While he was eating, he found a... dead cockroach in his food! *lol* Kita kata, padan muka dia!!! *hehehee* Then he asked me why I didn't want to take him out to the club or any entertainment spot, why I kept staying in my room, etc... Aduh... can't you get the message, I'm not interested to layan you.
Anyway, bila dia dah balik, I was sooooo relieved and swore never to open my big mouth again to the kucing kurabs. I mean, I had close friends over, and they were very respectful when they stayed, which was fine with me :) tapi yang kucing kurabs nie... since they've found out how expensive sgp is, they've stopped thinking of coming over. Oh, another friend, he was left with only S$10 yet his vacation wasn't over yet. He told me he had to leave - kat dalam hati, punya lah senang hati dia dah nak balik :D Tapi kan, kita kena hantar dia gi airport coz S$10 can't get you to the airport, dude!
Anyway, glad your problem is over and you dah senang hati dah... i tahu lah, mesti teringat2 and feeling overwhelmed, apa nak buat while he's around. Nak layan lain, nak avoid lain.
Alhamdulillah..I can understand betapa tak selesa n tak sedapnya ada bukan muhrim pat rumah..lagi2 bila yr family members not with u one of those days.Glad its all settled rosma.Mesti dah sejuk ni kan..eheee..
amin atas doa akk tu,hehe..mintak dia ubah fikiran..:) lagipun rase tak selesa je kan kalau orang lain duduk umah kita lama2,hehe..lagipun tak eloklah kalau semua takde kan kak..perasaan tu rasa tak sedap je..
mags..aiyooo..i feel for you. kira ni bukan kedekut ker apa..i tak kisah kalau nak datang. nak tumpang tido pun boleh..tapi sendiri kena ingat lah kan. kalau orang kita, at least they know adat and all that. orang diorang kat sini sometimes..take advantage lah. they expect you to take them around and all that..i mean..kalau nak ikut jalan and hike okay..i tak kisah..but nanti dia tak nak ikut and then stay here by himself..sean dah lah paranoid nyer orang..haha.
oh makcik suka kuaci dill..ah ah..lega you..i was like macam tak tentu arah gitu when i got the message..hahaha...panik japs i :) alhamdullilah..i tunggu sean balik and terus bilang dia. sib baik sean pun paham perangai i and also..he pun tau that it is not right lah kan. i mintak sori kat dia for being this way..he said no need to explain..he also felt uncomfortable if it happened. he said..kalau orang kita at least, they all paham kan..maybe time sean takder..they will go out ke apa ker..but syukur lah..tak datang :)
faisal..hehe..alhamdullilah..dia tak jadi datang sebab sean cakap, it is not the right time..hehe. kalau orang datang melawat dari luar negeri mmg lah..akak tak kisah kan. kesian jugak nengok. ni orang sini bangsa dia..they all tak paham adat atau ugama kita..tu yang leceh sikit tu.
alamakk rosma! kalau kita sedara pon nak duduk lelama tak syiok..ni kan pulak org luar. aha maybe ada baik u explain bab muhrim pd sean..moga moga dia faham..heheheh..anyway..amin..doa u dah terkabul. sibbaik, alhamdulillah.
mey..sean knows about the bukan muhrim nyer issue..hehe. it is his passive agressive nature..he tak nak say no to the guy..but hoping instead that he will get the hint..hahaha. the guy pernah stay here before going camping with us..but tu lah it is always with sean around.
Post a Comment